Festive Or Not, Dessert Cocktails Are Not My Thing — Here’s Why

Let’s be honest. We’ve all been attracted to a dessert cocktail at some point while looking at modern cocktail menus at restaurants. A tiramisu martini. A gingerbread white Russian. A gulab jamun old fashioned. Or even the ever-popular Baileys and ice cream combo that pops up at every festive gathering (and this one works only because it’s a classic and we know it). But if you, like me, enjoy your cocktails as drinks with character, balance and depth—and your desserts as a separate experience entirely—you’ll understand why I rarely reach for a dessert cocktail, festive season or not.

And no, this isn’t about being anti-innovation. Quite the opposite. As someone who has spent a fair amount of time exploring food and beverage trends across India and beyond, I appreciate creativity and experimentation. But what I don't support is lazy innovation—especially when it comes to crafting cocktails that are more sugary sweet than nuanced, layered drinks.

So let’s dig into why dessert cocktails, despite their increasing popularity, are often a miss in the Indian context—and how they might evolve to find their rightful place in a more refined cocktail culture.

The Rise Of Dessert Cocktails In India

The idea of a dessert cocktail isn’t new, but in India, it's enjoying a definite boom especially during the peak festive season (October-December) and occasionally at weddings. With the rise of premium liqueurs, flavoured spirits, and social media-ready plating (or rather, glassing), bartenders are experimenting like never before. From festivals and birthday parties to bachelorette nights and wedding receptions, there’s a sweet, spirit-forward something available to wrap up your meal.

This trend is partly inspired by the global popularity of drinks like the espresso martini, brandy alexander, and chocolate negroni. But most Indian interpretations I’ve come across tend to lean heavier—on cream, sugar, garnish, and theatrics.

Take, for example, the gingerbread martini I once tasted at a festive pop-up in Pune. What should have been a clever spin on a classic became a cloying, sticky, overly perfumed glass of regret. The balance between vodka and sugar was completely lost, overwhelmed by a bready texture–it just felt like someone had blended gingerbread cookies with syrup, ginger ale and vodka, strained the liquid into a martini glass, and served it up for a marked up price as a part of a festive menu.

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The Sweet Tooth Syndrome At Play?

There’s a cultural reason for this tendency to overdo the sugar. Indians are known for having a sweet tooth. From morning chai with two spoons of sugar to the ghee-soaked mithais that mark every celebration, sweetness is often equated with togetherness and festivities shared with loved ones.

But here’s the twist—our food culture and palate is also evolving. With growing awareness, experimentation and refined taste, many modern Indian desserts are becoming less sweet, more textural, and flavour-forward. There’s a clear movement towards moderation and balance when it comes to making festive treats that lean more on the sweet side.

Unfortunately, cocktail menus haven’t quite caught up.

When it comes to dessert cocktails, many Indian bartenders still operate under the assumption that more sugar equals better. That more condensed milk, more syrups, and more muddled sweets in a shaker will impress guests. In reality, these drinks often drown the spirit, mask complexity, and leave you with only a sugary mouthfeel.

Don’t get me wrong, there are plenty of innovative Indian bartenders who are using jaggery, sweet and ripe in-season fruits, along with caramel, coffee, bitters and dark chocolate to create balanced cocktails that cater to a sweet palate. But these bartenders and cocktail menus are rare, and of course, these cocktails are heavier on one’s pockets too.

What Makes a Great Cocktail (And Why Dessert Ones Struggle)

At the heart of every great cocktail is balance—between sweet, sour, bitter, and strong. The sweetness in a cocktail isn’t meant to dominate, but to round off edges, to complement the spirit’s core notes. Dessert cocktails, when done right, are meant to be a bridge between the main course and dessert, not a replacement for either. But too often, they fail because:

  • The base spirit is lost in a sea of syrups, cream, and sugar.
  • Textural contrast is ignored—dessert cocktails become one-note and heavy.
  • Cultural reference points are misapplied (just because it works in a halwa doesn’t mean it works in a glass).

And let’s not forget the presentation. A drink piled high with whipped cream, chocolate sauce, saffron foam and edible glitter might win on social media, but rarely pleases the palate.

The Path Forward: Rethinking Dessert Cocktails

All is not lost. There are good dessert cocktails out there—ones that marry the richness of desserts with the elegance of cocktail craftsmanship.

What we need is:

  • More restraint with sweeteners. Use jaggery, honey, or infused syrups in moderation.
  • Focus on balance—let the spirit shine, with dessert elements playing a supporting role.
  • Texture matters—consider carbonation, foam, or clarified milk punches to lighten up.
  • Better pairings—think spice-forward or nutty flavour profiles instead of just sugar overload.

Some bars in India are already leading the way. At a recent tasting in Delhi, I had a clarified coconut and white rum cocktail inspired by nariyal barfi, where the sweetness was subtle and the texture was crisp and clear. That’s the kind of smart innovation that makes you believe in the format.

So, Will I Ever Order One Again?

Maybe. But with a raised eyebrow and a lot of questions first.

To me, cocktails are a celebration of precision, storytelling, and restraint. When dessert elements are used as accents—not the whole show—they can elevate a drink. But when they hijack it, the cocktail loses its purpose.

The Indian cocktail scene is still growing, learning, and experimenting. And that’s a great thing. But let’s not confuse gimmicks marketed for the festive season with quality. We deserve drinks that are complex, elegant, and yes—delicious. Even if they’re inspired by desserts.

If you’re a home mixologist or just curious, don’t write off dessert cocktails entirely. Start simple. Try a spiced chocolate whisky cocktail, or a mango lassi-inspired gin sour with a hint of cumin. Focus on balance and sipability. Most importantly, treat your cocktail like a drink—not a dessert in disguise.

Because festive or not, our glasses deserve better.